Good morning friends. Yes it’s true and I believe that human relationships matters the most in life. Human relationship is a social relationship between human beings. There is this saying, “NO MAN IS AN ISLAND.” This means that no man can’t live alone by himself. We need each other in life even if we think we don’t need anyone in our life.
To build lasting relationships is not an easy thing to do. Relating to others involves sensitive, complicated, social behavior. Relationships are fluid. The individual tends to be self-centered, leading us to believe that everything in life is dedicated, and with the assumption that it needs self-gratification every time. We keep looking for comfort zones. This is a grave mistake.
Psychological dependence is a burden, where individuals look for external support. This is dangerous and will take possession of our senses. The ability to function independently and to risk consequences will disappear.
In symbiotic relations, interdependence is inevitable, and any upheaval results in ruptures. This syndrome works superficially to a near clockwork mechanism. It looks to be an ideal state of being, but in reality, it is a pseudo security built on each other’s frailties. These are highly volatile conditions where the mind becomes inconsistent and so can be misled.
An introspection of self and a keener study of the implications with respect to society would enable a clearer understanding.
A selfless mind, with the awareness of other people’s needs and requirements and with an awareness to make others happy, will create a climate of co-option without having to sacrifice one’s desires and aspirations. A strong will and maturity of mind and body can take care of itself, under any circumstance. The ability to decide what went wrong and why it went wrong will show light at the end of the tunnel. Human emotions such as self-pity and self-persecution must not interfere in the process of resolving problems.
