Posted by: dhirendra08 on: August 18, 2009
The word loses its impact when we refrain from acknowledging our offence (“Sorry for whatever I may have done”) or throw in a self-serving conditionality (“I am sorry if you were hurt”). If the purpose of an apology is only to say, “While I don’t think I was wrong, I will apologize because you say [...]
Posted by: dhirendra08 on: August 12, 2009
Good morning friends. In our daily life, we don’t know what will happen. But when something good or bad happened, we surely know what to reply on that. A thank you and a sorry, that is the perfect word to be told for the comfort of one. When someone did something good to you, it’s [...]
Posted by: dhirendra08 on: April 14, 2009
Good morning friends. Have you every feel any guilt before in your life? It’s not a good feelings…..right? Sometimes we do things which we should not intend to do, that’s why after wards we feel unhappy for that and sometime we feel guilty. Let me share one article which I have read. It’s a good [...]
Posted by: dhirendra08 on: April 5, 2009
Guilt is generally a good thing. It keeps our impulses in check, inspires us to protedct our families and communities, and helps us learn from mistakes. Unfortunately, it can also fuel depression and anxiety, or overwhelm accident survivors and war veterans. If left to fester, bad guilt can literally ruin a person’s life.
So how do [...]
Posted by: dhirendra08 on: November 25, 2008
Good morning friends. Here’s a story whose message I like: A pet store delivery truck was making its rounds. At every traffic light the driver would stop, leap out of the truck with a two-by-four and bang on the side of the vehicle. The curious driver of a car behind the truck called out. “What [...]
Posted by: dhirendra08 on: November 7, 2008
Yes, your mother probably did make you feel guilty when you didn’t do what she wanted. And, undoubtedly, you were told that if everyone did her part, the world would be a better place. But forget the guilt. Helping out a loved one, colleague, or cause isn’t going to work for anyone if it makes [...]
